Few people realize that they can be charged with child abuse or child neglect if they have a fight with someone in front of the child. A New York Criminal Lawyer said that most states currently have statutes that allow parents to be charged with child abuse or neglect if they are involved in a domestic dispute in the presence of the children. This is true, even if the child is not involved in the assault. If one spouse assaults the other, and one or more of their children are in the room with them, the primary aggressor in the assault can be charged with child abuse or neglect. There does not have to be any physical contact between the parent and the child. There does not even have to be any verbal assault of the child to qualify under the law.
Because of this change in the law in recent years, many parents have been charged with child abuse or neglect. In some cases, it is just not appropriate. Every family has disputes at one time or another. The ability of law enforcement to charge a parent with abuse or neglect for arguing with their spouse in the presence of the children is inappropriate. A Brooklyn Criminal Lawyer said many psychologists suggest that allowing children to see their parents disagree and then work out the issue together is important to teach children how to handle conflict in their own relationships as they mature. The obvious issue here is that if the parents become violent with each other, they start the cycle of domestic violence that may continue with their own children.
So when is it appropriate for the state to intervene? This line is blurry. Some people believe that state intervention is important at the verbal abuse stage and others believe that there should be physical contact between the spouses before the state makes any charges. Nevertheless, most states have criminal statutes that address verbal assaults. A Staten Island Criminal Lawyer said this type of assault usually involves placing another person in fear of an imminent physical assault. That is the difference. If the spouses are merely arguing to work out a problem, they may be angry at each other; but neither party is in fear that the other will actually harm them.